to be with a man who knows his way around women: a man who knows how to treat a lady, who knows exactly what to say and do... Unfortunately, the "stuff" they normally do to ‘convince’ a younger woman to like him back actually end up pushing her further away...even though it seems like the right thing to do at the time!
A woman would gladly give anything to a man who is "in control".
2) How I deal with this particular situation, and others like it. A few years ago, I did some work with a guy that had a particularly interesting technique for hiring people.
Here's what he did: After interviewing people for the position, he'd call back the one he liked BEST, and say: "I wanted to call and thank you for applying for this job, but I just don't think you're the right person for the position"... If the person said "OK, well thank you" he'd just hang up and call the next favorite one. " I actually listened to him do this live on the speakerphone one day in his office with a woman that he had interviewed. The point here is that in a hiring situation, there are usually many people applying.
He doesn’t pretend to have all the answers or make promises he can’t keep.
David is just a normal guy from Oregon who’s worked hard to learn how to meet women, get a date, and create lasting attraction.