The next time you have a great conversation with a woman you just met and feel that she’s definitely attracted to you, ask her if she remembers what the first thing you said to her was.Not to knock your ego or your brilliant opener here, but the chances are that 90% of the time, she won’t have a damn clue.Before you back off, too afraid to make a play, start cluing into her body language. Signals like these—and plenty of others—can be not-so-secret indicators of how she feels about you.Chances are, you’re underestimating the meaning behind her moves. To help you decode exactly what her postures, motions, and moves really mean, we’ve enlisted the help of two body-language experts.Comfort: According to former FBI agent and body language expert Joe Navarro, we have to first ask ourselves a very basic question: Is his overall body language comfortable (leaning toward you, torso and feet pointed in your direction with a comfortable amount of eye contact) or uncomfortable (facing away from you, hands hidden, either staring at you or constantly breaking eye contact)?I have a little experiment that I want you to try out.
It’s because women pay far more attention to body language and non-verbal communication than men ever do.
However, when no attraction exists, we won’t do much to match their body language.
According to Harris, if you notice a woman has started to shift her posture to align with yours each time you move, “you can be assured that she’s comfortable with you and that things are starting out on the right path.” What It Means: She’s Comfortable with You Ever look down and notice the front of her shoe is dangling from her toes?
And throughout your interaction she will always – even if it’s on a subconscious level – be observing and dissecting these non-verbal cues.
Now this might sound a bit worrying to some men, but here’s the cool thing; even while a woman is observing your body language, she will be giving out non-verbal cues of her own that are intended to let you know if she’s attracted to you or not.